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—Alan M., Polyamory in the News
With covid subsiding, events
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list as you send me news.
—alan7388 (at) gmail.com
2024
● Love
Is
Love
(Germany)
January 12 – 17, 2024
Homburg / Saar, Germany
The
German
organizations
PolyAmores
Netzwerk
(PAN)
e.V.
(Polyamory.de),
and Bisexuelles
Netzwerk
e.V.
(BiNe.net)
created
this
new
conference
in
2022
as
the
region
emerged
from
the
pandemic
disruptions.
The
working
language
is
German.
The
limit
in
2022
was
60
people.
PolyAmores
Netzwerk
normally runs
trans-regional
"Poly
Meetings"
for
German-speaking
polyfolks
in
Germany,
Switzerland
and
Austria.
The
organizers
say
the
gatherings
are
"a
platform
for
networking
and
for
the
exchange
of
experiences
and
practical
knowhow.
Also
theoretical
discussions
and
the
planning
of
cultural
and
political
activities."
(Also,
see
the Poly-Kalender of
local
and
regional
German-speaking
events.)
● Colorado
Poly
Weekend
Retreat –
Winter
Winter 2024;
dates
to
be
decided
Breckenridge,
CO
This
gathering
is
now
being
held
twice
a
year,
in
January
and
August. "Relaxing
vacation
time
with
poly
friends.
The
Colorado
Polyamory
Weekend
is
a
long
weekend
retreat
hosted
in
a
beautiful
mountain
lodge
with
all
meals
provided.
The
retreat
is
for
polyamorous
people
and
people
in
poly-relationships
to
hang
out
together
in
a
poly-normative,
accepting
environment.
The
weekend
goes
from
Thursday
afternoon
to
Monday
morning
and
is
held
in
the
beautiful
Rocky
Mountains
in
Colorado.
Come
relax,
make
new
friends,
and
enjoy
the
beauty
of
the
Rockies!"
February 8 – 13, 2024Rommerz, Germany
The German organization PolyAmores Netzwerk (PAN) e.V., at Polyamory.de, runs transregional "Poly Meetings" for German-speaking polyfolks in Germany, Switzerland and Austria. The organizers say the gatherings are "a platform for networking and for the exchange of experiences and practical knowhow. Also theoretical discussions and the planning of cultural and political activities. The programme is self organized by the participants." Minimum age 18. In past years the meetings have sold out within days of being announced. (Also see Poly-Kalender of local and regional German-speaking events.)
February 9 – 11, 2024
Philadelphia,
PA
This is the descendent of the first, original polyamory convention. It's put on by Loving More: once a print magazine, now a nonprofit. The last Poly Living East was in 2020 just before covid hit, and for a time its future was uncertain.
Now, writes director Robyn Trask, "Poly Living is returning to Philadelphia in 2024! We will be in-person at the Embassy Suites Philadelphia Airport [same as before], and we can't wait to see you there! We will send an update as soon as the details are finalized.
"We are enthusiastic about Loving More's future! For over 35 years the Loving More organization has been at the forefront of ethical non-monogamy and polyamory. The feedback from the community is that Loving More's mission isn't done yet, and we agree. Thanks to the community's generous donations [ahem; and you others know who you are], we are proud to announce that we are restructuring and returning to full operations."
2024 will be Poly Living's 16th
year, the 14th under
Loving More's
management. Before
the covid shutdown
it drew a lively,
increasingly diverse
crowd of about 200
interesting people
for talks,
workshops,
socializing,
sharing, party and
fun. Here were the
2020 sessions and presenters. Here's my writeup of the first
Poly Living I
attended (2006). In
2012 I gave
the keynote speech. Hope to meet you
there!
Loving
More, "supporting
polyamory and
relationship
choice since
1985," is the
original poly
organization
of the modern
era and played
a central role
in getting the
whole movement
going.
February 28 every year
Metamour Day (Valentine's Day times two) celebrates "polyamory's most distinctive relationship!" Articles with publicity materials you can use. Google to find current doings.
Late
winter
2024?
TBA
Miami,
FL
"RelateFest
is
for
people
who
love
exploring
relationships,
questioning
relationship
norms,
learning
new
skills,
and
connecting
with
others.
"RelateFest
brings
the
principles
of
curiosity
and
conscious
relating
to
a
safe
space
for
learning,
connection,
and
play.
The
event
will
feature
relationship
experts
holding
interactive
workshops,
small
group
discussions,
and
immersive
experiences.
Produced
by
Esther
Perel
Discussion
Group,
Leveled
Up
Love
and
WeDeepen."
Tickets
in
2023
were
$497+
per
person.
Hotel
options
ranged
from
pricy
(onsite)
to
basic
(offsite).
This
is
one
of
several
wellness/
growth/
relationship/
spiritual
events
put
on
by
the
for-profit Deepen company,
"the
most
raved
about
Social
&
Transformational
Experiences."
Early
spring
2024;
dates
TBD
Bastrop
State
Park
near
Austin,
Texas
"Poly
Big
Fun
(PBF),
the
longest
running
polyamory
event
in
Texas,
is
a
community-organized
retreat
open
to
all
families.
Unlike
most
events
it
is
100%
community
run.
Everyone
pays
the
same
amount
and
their
are
no
paid
speakers.
Workshops
are
given
by
members
of
our
community
on
topics
that
they
are
knowledgeable
and
passionate
about.
Board
game
and
other
geek
enthusiasts
abound.
There
will
be
a
Polyamory
101
class
and
ice-breaking
events,
so
whether
you
have
been
practicing
polyamory
for
2
weeks
or
25
years,
you
will
find
opportunities
to
connect
with
your
community
HERE!
"Previous
events
have
featured
dancing,
board
games,
crafts,
hiking,
bike
riding
and
other
events!
Bring
your
passion,
volunteer
to
teach,
help
make
our
shared
experience
better!" Facebook
page.
Early
spring 2024;
dates
TBD.
Tucson,
AZ
From
the
2023
description:
"We
are
returning
to
our
former
grand
scale
(pre-pandemic)
of
200-400
attendees
with
workshops
and
entertainment
from
Friday
to
Sunday.
Local
food
trucks
will
be
onsite
for
mealtimes
along
with
community
vendors
to
shop
at.
Friday
will
be
a
half
day
of
social
themed
workshops
and
events
so
that
attendees
can
start
to
get
to
know
each
other
along
with
non-monogamy/polyamory
101
intro
workshops
for
beginners.
Saturday
will
be
three
tracks
of
different
workshops
offered
all
day
with
evening
entertainment.
Two
of
the
Saturday
tracks
will
be
info-based
workshops
with
the
third
track
to
be
other
ways
of
learning
&
connecting
such
as
somatic
or
art
based
workshops.
On
Sunday
there
will
be
integration
focused
workshops,
ending
with
our
traditional
town
hall
to
close
at
midday."
The
first
Southwest
Love
Fest
in
2018
sold
out
with
over
225
attendees,
and
the
second
in
2019
had
over
400.
I
was
at
SW
Love
Fest
in
2018
and
found
the
vibe
exuberant
and
excited,
the
attendees
(80%
from
Arizona) great-hearted
and
significantly
diverse,
and
the
presenters
I
saw
were
mostly
excellent.
The
Saturday-night
social
events
included,
simultaneously,
a
treasure
hunt,
an
EDM
dance
party
with
costuming
available,
and
a
cuddle
puddle
in
a
big
pop-up
gazebo
under
the
stars.
There
was
a
CEU
track
for
psychology
professionals
to
earn
continuing-education
credits.
Child
care
was
offered
onsite
both
years.
Conference
organizers
Kate
Kincaid
and
Sara
Bachmann-Williams
recruited
many
volunteers
from
the
Tucson
and
Phoenix
poly
and
kink
communities,
and
the
success
of
the
event
seems
to
have
come
largely
from
word
of
mouth.
Heavy
early
involvement
by
the
local
community
seems
to
make
the
difference
for
the
success
of
a
polycon.
Kate
says
that
she
and
Sara will
help
advise
anyone
who
wants
to
start
a
hotel
polycon
in
their
own
city; write
to
southwestlovefest
AT
gmail.com.
Spring
2024?
Portland,
Oregon
Description
for
2020, the
last
Polytopia
before
it
was
suspended
for
Covid: "Sex-Positive
Portland will
host
the
city's
sixth
annual
polyamory
and
open
relationship
symposium
and
celebration.
Join
us
for
three
days
of
radical
love,
relationships
and
sustainability."
Slogan:
"Revolution
through
radical
loving."
"Polytopia
offers
workshops
for
those
who
are
relatively
new
to
navigating
the
joys
and
pitfalls
of
loving
more
and
workshops
for
those
who
are
already
well-experienced
with
polyamory
who
are
looking
for
ways
to
better
live
the
life
they
love.
Workshops
will
be
in
a
variety
of
formats
ranging
from
lecture
and
discussion
to
experiential
and
embodied
activities
in
dyads,
triads
and
more.
We
will
also
offer
lunchtime
discussion
panels
and
affinity
groups
to
choose
from
each
day
to
deepen
our
knowledge
and
connections
with
each
other." Facebook
page.
● Rocky
Mountain
Poly
Living
Spring 2024?
TBD.
Denver,
CO
The
2022
banner
Rocky
Mountain
Poly
Living
came
back
in
2022
after
a
two-year
pandemic
hiatus.
It
was
not
held
in
2023
and
2024
plans
are
uncertain.
It's
been
run
by Loving
More (based
in
Colorado),
which
also
put
on
Poly
Living
East
in
Philadelphia.
Talks,
workshops,
socializing,
sharing,
dance
party,
warmth,
and
fun.
In
2022
scholarship
funds
for
low-income/DEI
attendees
and
presenters
were
provided
by The
Polyamory
Foundation.
"Rocky
Mountain
Poly
Living
has
an
amazing
mix
of
workshops,
playshops,
and
entertainment.
Poly
Living
is
a
place
to
learn
relationship
skills,
workshops
are
focused
on
polyamorous
relating,
intimacy
and
living,
and
opportunities
to
meet
like
minded
people."
Here
were
the
Denver
2022 talks
and
workshops and
their presenters. In
2016
I
gave
the keynote
speech.
Loving
More,
"supporting
polyamory
and
relationship
choice
since
1985,"
is
the
original
poly
organization
of
the
modern
era
and
played
a
central
role
in
getting
the
whole
movement
going.
May 2024, dates TBDAbrams Creek Retreat Center, Mt. Storm, WV
"A multi-day experiment in loving community and cultural change. Each year we choose a new theme, an aspect of life that we want to explore."
From the spring 2023 description: "Theme: Joy and Resilience. We'll dive into joyful, loving connection and practice skills for healthy resilient relating in service of human liberation!
"This event will be alcohol and drug free; welcoming to humans of all races, genders, and sexual orientations; financially accessible; and COVID cautious." (Either full vaccination or pre-quarantining onsite required, plus daily rapid tests.) In my experience, New Culture events draw about 70% polyfolks and are super poly-friendly.
May 28 – June 2, 2024Rittergut Lützensömmern, Germany
The German organization PolyAmores Netzwerk (PAN) e.V., at Polyamory.de, runs transregional "Poly Meetings" for German-speaking polyfolks in Germany, Switzerland and Austria. The organizers say the gatherings are "a platform for networking and for the exchange of experiences and practical knowhow. Also theoretical discussions and the planning of cultural and political activities. The programme is self organized by the participants." Minimum age 18. In past years the meetings have sold out within days of being announced. (Also see Poly-Kalender of local and regional German-speaking events.)
June 2024 (dates TBD)Galliners, Catalonia, Spain
This will be OpenCon Catalonia's tenth year. It runs by a self-generated unconference program. "IOCC is an opportunity to get together in a friendly environment and share our experiences, our questions, the lessons we’ve learned, and the joys we’ve experienced in this new territory of polyamory/non-monogamy/open relationships. We’ll be about 40 people, and the basic plan is to combine workshops with plenty of opportunities for relaxing and socialising. Check the what will happen page to get an idea of how it could be, and don’t forget to read our Code of Conduct. Meals (breakfast, lunch, dinner) will be provided from Friday dinner to Monday lunch." The working language is English. Over 18 only (infants OK). Sells out quickly.
June 2024 (Dates TBD)Alborache, València, Spain
"Un fin de semana de convivencia, debates, talleres y actividades lúdicas. Una oportunidad de conocer gente con ideas y actitudes abiertas en torno a las relaciones afectivas.
"Este encuentro anual se lleva a cabo en el mes de junio en un albergue en plena naturaleza. Constituye un espacio donde compartir experiencias e inquietudes sobre modelos de vínculos entre las personas, desde una perspectiva feminista, solidaria y basada en el respeto. El contenido de la OpenCon lo proporcionan las personas asistentes, por lo que cada convocatoria es una sorpresa y una experiencia única." Poliamor Valencia Facebook page.
July 2024, dates TBA Abrams Creek Retreat Center, Mount Storm, WV
An evening discussion in the main dome. Other people were chopping vegetables in the kitchen for the next day's meals, chatting and snuggling in the lodge living room, camping in the night woods, or engaged in private activities.
I've attended this interesting, powerful, ten-day event for many years. Network for a New Culture explores building intimate community through practices of curiosity, transparency, self-exploration, and self-responsibility. The days are structured around ZEGG Forum, various self-improvement and human-potential presenters visiting to offer their stuff, and sharing life, work, and play in the West Virginia mountain woods.
“While not exclusively a poly event,” says co-founder Michael Rios, “Summer Camp East is about 70% polyfolk, and 100% poly-friendly.” Here are my impressions from my first year. Here's a bit more from my fourth (last two paragraphs).
From the description: "A 10-day experimental community for emotional intimacy, radical love, and global change. Experience what we’ve learned in our 25 years of exploration – the compassion, communication, and intimate connection that make a new world possible. Connect in the ways you’ve always wanted, learn skills to transform your daily life, and dive into the challenges of creating a world that works for all beings."
About 60 or 70 people usually attend. Vegetarian and vegan group meals; cabins and campsites in the woods (no vehicle hookups); bathhouse with sinks and hot showers. Conditions are mostly rustic, but some indoor accommodations are available onsite (priority goes to those with special needs), and a camp-owned motel is 3 miles away. Inquire whether there's a kids' program this year. A beautiful, and accurate, promo video (I'm in it!). Another camper speaks.
Covid protocols are serious, with emphasis on repeated testing. In 2022 and 2023 these included proof of Covid vaccination or recent infection (recovered), six daily rapid antigen tests before and during camp, and other measures. I was there both years; not one positive Covid test showed up in some 520 total rapid tests conducted and checked onsite, nor was anyone symptomatic, nor was there any reported case post-camp. And IMO, both were among the best Summer Camps I've been to.
● Minnesota PolyCon
Summer 2024, dates TBDShoreview, MN, next to Minneapolis
In 2018 this new one-day event drew 86 people, and 2019 "was a big success with an attendance of 171," wrote MNPoly organizer Randy Frehse. For 2020 he wrote "We are hoping for 200 - 250," but then it was cancelled by the pandemic. Ditto 2021. But the con was back in 2022 and 2023, recovering with financial aid from The Polyamory Foundation.
Sessions have included sex positivity & consent, anatomy of arousal, solo poly, polyamory & mental health, poly & parenting, poly & religion, deconstructing jealousy, being out & poly, and fundamentals of good communication in your polycule. Organized and run by the 1500-member MNPoly Meetup group.
Saturday, July 15, 2023?US and worldwide
OPEN, the Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Non-monogamy, is a new and impressively capable nonprofit umbrella group "dedicated to fostering the polyamory and non-monogamy movement by advancing cultural acceptance, building political power, and supporting non-monogamous communities and leaders." It launched the first annual Day of Visibility on July 15, 2023, with an impressive 40 supporting organizations from poly to RA to swinging, with a serious media campaign and at least 19 local events scheduled by member groups. The project offered a panoply of graphics, text, and other resources to help users spread the word. The plan more for 2024. See my article on the project and its background.
● Colorado Poly Weekend Retreat – SummerAugust 2024, dates TBDBreckenridge, CO
This gathering is now being held twice a year, in January and August. "Relaxing vacation time with poly friends. The Colorado Polyamory Weekend is a long weekend retreat hosted in a beautiful mountain lodge with all meals provided. The retreat is for polyamorous people and people in poly-relationships to hang out together in a poly-normative, accepting environment. The weekend goes from Thursday afternoon to Monday morning and is held in the beautiful Rocky Mountains in Colorado. Come relax, make new friends, and enjoy the beauty of the Rockies!"
On the dock at Polycamp Northeast
● Polycamp Northeast
August 2024; dates TBD East-central New Hampshire
This 3½-day event began with a smashing success in August 2016 (I was there) and has been running since, skipping 2020 during the pandemic. I attended three of the first four, and what a collection of loving hearts this has been each time. Attendance in 2021, 2022, and 2023 sold out at 100 people (full vaccination required) after reaching about 65 in previous years. People self-organize a variety of talks and activities: these have included nonviolent communication techniques, general poly discussion, genderqueer topics, yoga, nightly campfire, board games, crafts, a kayak race, cuddle party, dance. The venue is a well-equipped old New England summer camp (the group cabins each have a full bath) in the New Hampshire lakes region north of Boston. Waterfront with paddleboards, kayaks, canoes, water trampoline. Three meals a day included.
"At PolyCamp Northeast, we support each other in the full spectrum of relationship structures, sexual orientations, and gender identities. This is a space of love, inclusion and acceptance. It is a culture of respect, safety, communication and healthy boundaries. We bring our best selves together to form a community where we can all thrive. Thank you for co-creating this community with us!"
Summer 2024Ottawa, Ontario
After running for several years Polywood Camp was cancelled for Covid in 2020, then a version was held online in 2021, then was cancelled for 2022. In 2023 it was back at a new location, a campground in Ottawa.
"A kid-friendly poly camping weekend. Join us at Polywood this year to laugh, learn, and community build under the stars. Meet fellow like-minded poly people around the large communal bonfire; take part in various relationship building and strengthening discussions; share your poly knowledge and experiences over wine and cheese. We have limited scholarship funds available; email us at polywood.camping@gmail.com for more information."
August 2024, dates to be decidedCarbondale (near Aspen), Colorado?
(Not to be confused with the Colorado Polyamory Weekend Retreat, which is in a building with services.)
Robyn Trask and Jesus Garcia of Loving More have held this informal family-friendly campout nearly every year for 19 years. Lately about 30 people usually attend. "Come spend a weekend in the amazing White River National Forest near Carbondale, CO. This area boasts abundant wildlife, breathtaking scenery, and a rich history. Join us for hiking, exploring ghost towns, fishing, campfire cooking, conversations, and hanging out with other polyamorous families from the Rocky Mountain Region and beyond."
Robyn writes, "I started hosting this event in 2003 at the earnest request of my children who loved going to the group camp each year and meeting other kids who had weird polyamorous parents. This event was the place my kids could have fun and gave them lifelong friends.
"My kids are grown and I still love hosting this event each year and the opportunity to share my passion for the beauty of the Rocky Mountains with my extended family, the polyamory community.
"Now twenty years later my daughter is bringing her own child and it fills me with happiness!"
Aug. 25 – Sept. 2, 2024
Nevada desert
Village of PolyParadise has been running at Burning Man since 1999. This is a large theme-camp cluster, typically 350 x 440 feet, usually with 250 - 300 campers. Generally about half are repeats from previous years, half are new. Workshops and events in 2022 included Poly High Tea, the famous Human Carcass Wash, Poly Friendly Social/Mixer, Ethical Slut Meet & Greet, Fire Flow Yoga, Therapeutic Photography Session, the Twisted Swan Celtic Pub, and the non-alcoholic Temple of Bacchus. Writes Benevolent Dictator Scotto, "The Village of PolyParadise was absolutely incredible and our best effort yet at creating this amazing On-Playa home. Each year there are many challenges and together we find a way to make things right, together we build an amazing space within the gates of BRC, a place to really call home in the desert." History. September 2024? Dates to be decided
Ávila, Spain
¿En qué consiste? Consiste en una combinación de debates, talleres y actividades lúdicas que te brindarán la oportunidad de conocer gente con tus mismas ideas y actitudes, compartir experiencias e inquietudes, ayudar a fortalecer nuestra comunidad y disfrutar de su diversidad. El contenido de la OpenCon lo proporcionan las personas asistentes, por lo que cada convocatoria será diferente. Os damos una idea de cómo fue la agenda de años anteriores. Each year, this conference has sold out fast when registration opens.
City to be decided?Fall 2023?
Solo poly symbol
This roving conference, "for solo polyamorous people and those who love them," missed 2020 during Covid, ran online in 2021, and was cancelled for New York in 2022. Watch the link for news of 2023.
Past description: "Are you new to polyamory and exploring the many possible configurations, or been practicing honest non-monogamy for decades? Regardless of where you are on the experience spectrum, you’ll appreciate the support, community, camaraderie, hospitality, and awesome keynote speakers we’re assembling for your enjoyment, learning, and growth." In past years SoPoCo sold out in advance.
Fall 2024; dates to de decided. Miami, FL
"RelateFest is for people who love exploring relationships, questioning relationship norms, learning new skills, and connecting with others. RelateFest brings the principles of curiosity and conscious relating to a safe space for learning, connection, and play. The event will feature relationship experts holding interactive workshops, small group discussions, and immersive experiences. Produced by Esther Perel Discussion Group, Leveled Up Love, and WeDeepen" (a for-profit company).
Last I knew registration itself was $497+ per person. Hotel options ranged from pricy (onsite) to basic (offsite). This is one of many wellness/ growth/ relationship/ spiritual events put on by the Deepen company, "the most raved about Social & Transformational Experiences."
September 2024Gut Frohberg, Germany?
The German organization PolyAmores Netzwerk (PAN) e.V., at Polyamory.de, runs transregional "Poly Meetings" for German-speaking polyfolks in Germany, Switzerland and Austria. The organizers say the gatherings are (translated) "a platform for networking and for the exchange of experiences and practical knowhow. Also theoretical discussions and the planning of cultural and political activities. The programme is self organized by the participants." Minimum age 18. The working language is German. In past years the meetings have sold out within days of being announced. (Also see Poly-Kalender of local and regional German-speaking events.)
October 2024, dates to be decidedAbrams Creek Retreat Center, Mt. Storm, WV
This is a smaller, more intimate version of New Culture Summer Camp held in July at the Abrams Creek Retreat Center in the mountains of West Virginia (see July here for description). These events draw about 70% polyfolks; the focus is on building practices of transparency, self-understanding, communication skills, and intimacy to create radically better relationships of any type. The aim to build, over several days, an enduring network of like-minded people who don't necessarily fall out of touch as happens after most events. "The point is building tribe," says co-organizer Michael Rios.
I've gone to the larger New Culture Summer Camp for many years and can't recommend Center for a New Culture events highly enough. From the website: “Here is where you can meet people at a deeper level, learn the skills needed to handle your relationships, and become a part of a supportive network of people who share your relationship values.... Spend up to 5 days in a rustic woods-and-water setting, hang out around a bonfire, enjoy a song circle, cuddle up at a snuggle party, learn to take your relationships to the next level, and build connections with others that last all year long!”
Explains Michael, "We are exploring the questions: What does it mean to be there for each other? What would it take to be solidly present in each others’ lives, responding flexibly and with love to the needs that emerge? What might we do right now to be there for each other? What role does commitment play? The deep truth is that each person is fundamentally alone. Yet at the same time, there is beauty and skillfulness in interdependence.... And beyond merely meeting needs, we can find delight in co-creation, and in the many ways we can support each other in greater joy. At this community journey, we will open these explorations in a field of love, curiosity, and compassion." Video. Also, a camper's video.
● Love
Is
Love
(Germany)
January 12 – 17, 2024
January 12 – 17, 2024
Homburg / Saar, Germany
The German organizations PolyAmores Netzwerk (PAN) e.V. (Polyamory.de), and Bisexuelles Netzwerk e.V. (BiNe.net) created this new conference in 2022 as the region emerged from the pandemic disruptions. The working language is German. The limit in 2022 was 60 people.
PolyAmores Netzwerk normally runs trans-regional "Poly Meetings" for German-speaking polyfolks in Germany, Switzerland and Austria. The organizers say the gatherings are "a platform for networking and for the exchange of experiences and practical knowhow. Also theoretical discussions and the planning of cultural and political activities." (Also, see the Poly-Kalender of local and regional German-speaking events.)
● Colorado
Poly
Weekend
Retreat –
Winter
Winter 2024;
dates
to
be
decided
Breckenridge,
CO
This
gathering
is
now
being
held
twice
a
year,
in
January
and
August. "Relaxing
vacation
time
with
poly
friends.
The
Colorado
Polyamory
Weekend
is
a
long
weekend
retreat
hosted
in
a
beautiful
mountain
lodge
with
all
meals
provided.
The
retreat
is
for
polyamorous
people
and
people
in
poly-relationships
to
hang
out
together
in
a
poly-normative,
accepting
environment.
The
weekend
goes
from
Thursday
afternoon
to
Monday
morning
and
is
held
in
the
beautiful
Rocky
Mountains
in
Colorado.
Come
relax,
make
new
friends,
and
enjoy
the
beauty
of
the
Rockies!"
February 8 – 13, 2024
Rommerz, Germany
The German organization PolyAmores Netzwerk (PAN) e.V., at Polyamory.de, runs transregional "Poly Meetings" for German-speaking polyfolks in Germany, Switzerland and Austria. The organizers say the gatherings are "a platform for networking and for the exchange of experiences and practical knowhow. Also theoretical discussions and the planning of cultural and political activities. The programme is self organized by the participants." Minimum age 18. In past years the meetings have sold out within days of being announced. (Also see Poly-Kalender of local and regional German-speaking events.)
The German organization PolyAmores Netzwerk (PAN) e.V., at Polyamory.de, runs transregional "Poly Meetings" for German-speaking polyfolks in Germany, Switzerland and Austria. The organizers say the gatherings are "a platform for networking and for the exchange of experiences and practical knowhow. Also theoretical discussions and the planning of cultural and political activities. The programme is self organized by the participants." Minimum age 18. In past years the meetings have sold out within days of being announced. (Also see Poly-Kalender of local and regional German-speaking events.)
February 9 – 11, 2024
Philadelphia,
PA
This is the descendent of the first, original polyamory convention. It's put on by Loving More: once a print magazine, now a nonprofit. The last Poly Living East was in 2020 just before covid hit, and for a time its future was uncertain.
Now, writes director Robyn Trask, "Poly Living is returning to Philadelphia in 2024! We will be in-person at the Embassy Suites Philadelphia Airport [same as before], and we can't wait to see you there! We will send an update as soon as the details are finalized.
Now, writes director Robyn Trask, "Poly Living is returning to Philadelphia in 2024! We will be in-person at the Embassy Suites Philadelphia Airport [same as before], and we can't wait to see you there! We will send an update as soon as the details are finalized.
"We are enthusiastic about Loving More's future! For over 35 years the Loving More organization has been at the forefront of ethical non-monogamy and polyamory. The feedback from the community is that Loving More's mission isn't done yet, and we agree. Thanks to the community's generous donations [ahem; and you others know who you are], we are proud to announce that we are restructuring and returning to full operations."
2024 will be Poly Living's 16th
year, the 14th under
Loving More's
management. Before
the covid shutdown
it drew a lively,
increasingly diverse
crowd of about 200
interesting people
for talks,
workshops,
socializing,
sharing, party and
fun. Here were the
2020 sessions and presenters. Here's my writeup of the first
Poly Living I
attended (2006). In
2012 I gave
the keynote speech. Hope to meet you
there!
Loving More, "supporting polyamory and relationship choice since 1985," is the original poly organization of the modern era and played a central role in getting the whole movement going.
February 28 every year
Metamour Day (Valentine's Day times two) celebrates "polyamory's most distinctive relationship!" Articles with publicity materials you can use. Google to find current doings.
Late
winter
2024?
TBA
Miami,
FL
"RelateFest
is
for
people
who
love
exploring
relationships,
questioning
relationship
norms,
learning
new
skills,
and
connecting
with
others.
"RelateFest
brings
the
principles
of
curiosity
and
conscious
relating
to
a
safe
space
for
learning,
connection,
and
play.
The
event
will
feature
relationship
experts
holding
interactive
workshops,
small
group
discussions,
and
immersive
experiences.
Produced
by
Esther
Perel
Discussion
Group,
Leveled
Up
Love
and
WeDeepen."
Tickets
in
2023
were
$497+
per
person.
Hotel
options
ranged
from
pricy
(onsite)
to
basic
(offsite).
This
is
one
of
several
wellness/
growth/
relationship/
spiritual
events
put
on
by
the
for-profit Deepen company,
"the
most
raved
about
Social
&
Transformational
Experiences."
Early
spring
2024;
dates
TBD
Bastrop
State
Park
near
Austin,
Texas
"Poly Big Fun (PBF), the longest running polyamory event in Texas, is a community-organized retreat open to all families. Unlike most events it is 100% community run. Everyone pays the same amount and their are no paid speakers. Workshops are given by members of our community on topics that they are knowledgeable and passionate about. Board game and other geek enthusiasts abound. There will be a Polyamory 101 class and ice-breaking events, so whether you have been practicing polyamory for 2 weeks or 25 years, you will find opportunities to connect with your community HERE!
"Previous
events
have
featured
dancing,
board
games,
crafts,
hiking,
bike
riding
and
other
events!
Bring
your
passion,
volunteer
to
teach,
help
make
our
shared
experience
better!" Facebook
page.
Early
spring 2024;
dates
TBD.
Tucson,
AZ
From
the
2023
description:
"We
are
returning
to
our
former
grand
scale
(pre-pandemic)
of
200-400
attendees
with
workshops
and
entertainment
from
Friday
to
Sunday.
Local
food
trucks
will
be
onsite
for
mealtimes
along
with
community
vendors
to
shop
at.
Friday
will
be
a
half
day
of
social
themed
workshops
and
events
so
that
attendees
can
start
to
get
to
know
each
other
along
with
non-monogamy/polyamory
101
intro
workshops
for
beginners.
Saturday
will
be
three
tracks
of
different
workshops
offered
all
day
with
evening
entertainment.
Two
of
the
Saturday
tracks
will
be
info-based
workshops
with
the
third
track
to
be
other
ways
of
learning
&
connecting
such
as
somatic
or
art
based
workshops.
On
Sunday
there
will
be
integration
focused
workshops,
ending
with
our
traditional
town
hall
to
close
at
midday."
The
first
Southwest
Love
Fest
in
2018
sold
out
with
over
225
attendees,
and
the
second
in
2019
had
over
400.
I
was
at
SW
Love
Fest
in
2018
and
found
the
vibe
exuberant
and
excited,
the
attendees
(80%
from
Arizona) great-hearted
and
significantly
diverse,
and
the
presenters
I
saw
were
mostly
excellent.
The
Saturday-night
social
events
included,
simultaneously,
a
treasure
hunt,
an
EDM
dance
party
with
costuming
available,
and
a
cuddle
puddle
in
a
big
pop-up
gazebo
under
the
stars.
There
was
a
CEU
track
for
psychology
professionals
to
earn
continuing-education
credits.
Child
care
was
offered
onsite
both
years.
Conference organizers Kate Kincaid and Sara Bachmann-Williams recruited many volunteers from the Tucson and Phoenix poly and kink communities, and the success of the event seems to have come largely from word of mouth. Heavy early involvement by the local community seems to make the difference for the success of a polycon.
Kate
says
that
she
and
Sara will
help
advise
anyone
who
wants
to
start
a
hotel
polycon
in
their
own
city; write
to
southwestlovefest
AT
gmail.com.
Spring
2024?
Portland,
Oregon
Description for 2020, the last Polytopia before it was suspended for Covid: "Sex-Positive Portland will host the city's sixth annual polyamory and open relationship symposium and celebration. Join us for three days of radical love, relationships and sustainability." Slogan: "Revolution through radical loving."
"Polytopia offers workshops for those who are relatively new to navigating the joys and pitfalls of loving more and workshops for those who are already well-experienced with polyamory who are looking for ways to better live the life they love. Workshops will be in a variety of formats ranging from lecture and discussion to experiential and embodied activities in dyads, triads and more. We will also offer lunchtime discussion panels and affinity groups to choose from each day to deepen our knowledge and connections with each other." Facebook page.
"A multi-day experiment in loving community and cultural change. Each year we choose a new theme, an aspect of life that we want to explore."
I've attended this interesting, powerful, ten-day event for many years. Network for a New Culture explores building intimate community through practices of curiosity, transparency, self-exploration, and self-responsibility. The days are structured around ZEGG Forum, various self-improvement and human-potential presenters visiting to offer their stuff, and sharing life, work, and play in the West Virginia mountain woods.
“While not exclusively a poly event,” says co-founder Michael Rios, “Summer Camp East is about 70% polyfolk, and 100% poly-friendly.” Here are my impressions from my first year. Here's a bit more from my fourth (last two paragraphs).
About 60 or 70 people usually attend. Vegetarian and vegan group meals; cabins and campsites in the woods (no vehicle hookups); bathhouse with sinks and hot showers. Conditions are mostly rustic, but some indoor accommodations are available onsite (priority goes to those with special needs), and a camp-owned motel is 3 miles away. Inquire whether there's a kids' program this year. A beautiful, and accurate, promo video (I'm in it!). Another camper speaks.
● Minnesota PolyCon
Summer 2024, dates TBD
Sessions have included sex positivity & consent, anatomy of arousal, solo poly, polyamory & mental health, poly & parenting, poly & religion, deconstructing jealousy, being out & poly, and fundamentals of good communication in your polycule. Organized and run by the 1500-member MNPoly Meetup group.
● Polycamp Northeast
August 2024; dates TBD
"At PolyCamp Northeast, we support each other in the full spectrum of relationship structures, sexual orientations, and gender identities. This is a space of love, inclusion and acceptance. It is a culture of respect, safety, communication and healthy boundaries. We bring our best selves together to form a community where we can all thrive. Thank you for co-creating this community with us!"
After running for several years Polywood Camp was cancelled for Covid in 2020, then a version was held online in 2021, then was cancelled for 2022. In 2023 it was back at a new location, a campground in Ottawa.
Description for 2020, the last Polytopia before it was suspended for Covid: "Sex-Positive Portland will host the city's sixth annual polyamory and open relationship symposium and celebration. Join us for three days of radical love, relationships and sustainability." Slogan: "Revolution through radical loving."
"Polytopia offers workshops for those who are relatively new to navigating the joys and pitfalls of loving more and workshops for those who are already well-experienced with polyamory who are looking for ways to better live the life they love. Workshops will be in a variety of formats ranging from lecture and discussion to experiential and embodied activities in dyads, triads and more. We will also offer lunchtime discussion panels and affinity groups to choose from each day to deepen our knowledge and connections with each other." Facebook page.
● Rocky
Mountain
Poly
Living
Spring 2024? TBD.
Spring 2024? TBD.
Denver,
CO
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|
| The 2022 banner |
Rocky
Mountain
Poly
Living
came
back
in
2022
after
a
two-year
pandemic
hiatus.
It
was
not
held
in
2023
and
2024
plans
are
uncertain.
It's
been
run
by Loving
More (based
in
Colorado),
which
also
put
on
Poly
Living
East
in
Philadelphia.
Talks,
workshops,
socializing,
sharing,
dance
party,
warmth,
and
fun.
In
2022
scholarship
funds
for
low-income/DEI
attendees
and
presenters
were
provided
by The
Polyamory
Foundation.
"Rocky
Mountain
Poly
Living
has
an
amazing
mix
of
workshops,
playshops,
and
entertainment.
Poly
Living
is
a
place
to
learn
relationship
skills,
workshops
are
focused
on
polyamorous
relating,
intimacy
and
living,
and
opportunities
to
meet
like
minded
people."
Here
were
the
Denver
2022 talks
and
workshops and
their presenters. In
2016
I
gave
the keynote
speech.
Loving
More,
"supporting
polyamory
and
relationship
choice
since
1985,"
is
the
original
poly
organization
of
the
modern
era
and
played
a
central
role
in
getting
the
whole
movement
going.
May 2024, dates TBD
Abrams Creek Retreat Center, Mt. Storm, WV
From the spring 2023 description: "Theme: Joy and Resilience. We'll dive into joyful, loving connection and practice skills for healthy resilient relating in service of human liberation!
"This event will be alcohol and drug free; welcoming to humans of all races, genders, and sexual orientations; financially accessible; and COVID cautious." (Either full vaccination or pre-quarantining onsite required, plus daily rapid tests.) In my experience, New Culture events draw about 70% polyfolks and are super poly-friendly.
May 28 – June 2, 2024
Rittergut Lützensömmern, Germany
The German organization PolyAmores Netzwerk (PAN) e.V., at Polyamory.de, runs transregional "Poly Meetings" for German-speaking polyfolks in Germany, Switzerland and Austria. The organizers say the gatherings are "a platform for networking and for the exchange of experiences and practical knowhow. Also theoretical discussions and the planning of cultural and political activities. The programme is self organized by the participants." Minimum age 18. In past years the meetings have sold out within days of being announced. (Also see Poly-Kalender of local and regional German-speaking events.)
The German organization PolyAmores Netzwerk (PAN) e.V., at Polyamory.de, runs transregional "Poly Meetings" for German-speaking polyfolks in Germany, Switzerland and Austria. The organizers say the gatherings are "a platform for networking and for the exchange of experiences and practical knowhow. Also theoretical discussions and the planning of cultural and political activities. The programme is self organized by the participants." Minimum age 18. In past years the meetings have sold out within days of being announced. (Also see Poly-Kalender of local and regional German-speaking events.)
June 2024 (dates TBD)
Galliners, Catalonia, Spain
This will be OpenCon Catalonia's tenth year. It runs by a self-generated unconference program. "IOCC is an opportunity to get together in a friendly environment and share our experiences, our questions, the lessons we’ve learned, and the joys we’ve experienced in this new territory of polyamory/non-monogamy/open relationships. We’ll be about 40 people, and the basic plan is to combine workshops with plenty of opportunities for relaxing and socialising. Check the what will happen page to get an idea of how it could be, and don’t forget to read our Code of Conduct. Meals (breakfast, lunch, dinner) will be provided from Friday dinner to Monday lunch." The working language is English. Over 18 only (infants OK). Sells out quickly.
This will be OpenCon Catalonia's tenth year. It runs by a self-generated unconference program. "IOCC is an opportunity to get together in a friendly environment and share our experiences, our questions, the lessons we’ve learned, and the joys we’ve experienced in this new territory of polyamory/non-monogamy/open relationships. We’ll be about 40 people, and the basic plan is to combine workshops with plenty of opportunities for relaxing and socialising. Check the what will happen page to get an idea of how it could be, and don’t forget to read our Code of Conduct. Meals (breakfast, lunch, dinner) will be provided from Friday dinner to Monday lunch." The working language is English. Over 18 only (infants OK). Sells out quickly.
June 2024 (Dates TBD)
Alborache, València, Spain
"Un fin de semana de convivencia, debates, talleres y actividades lúdicas. Una oportunidad de conocer gente con ideas y actitudes abiertas en torno a las relaciones afectivas.
"Este encuentro anual se lleva a cabo en el mes de junio en un albergue en plena naturaleza. Constituye un espacio donde compartir experiencias e inquietudes sobre modelos de vínculos entre las personas, desde una perspectiva feminista, solidaria y basada en el respeto. El contenido de la OpenCon lo proporcionan las personas asistentes, por lo que cada convocatoria es una sorpresa y una experiencia única." Poliamor Valencia Facebook page.
"Un fin de semana de convivencia, debates, talleres y actividades lúdicas. Una oportunidad de conocer gente con ideas y actitudes abiertas en torno a las relaciones afectivas.
"Este encuentro anual se lleva a cabo en el mes de junio en un albergue en plena naturaleza. Constituye un espacio donde compartir experiencias e inquietudes sobre modelos de vínculos entre las personas, desde una perspectiva feminista, solidaria y basada en el respeto. El contenido de la OpenCon lo proporcionan las personas asistentes, por lo que cada convocatoria es una sorpresa y una experiencia única." Poliamor Valencia Facebook page.
July 2024, dates TBA
Abrams Creek Retreat Center, Mount Storm, WV
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| An evening discussion in the main dome. Other people were chopping vegetables in the kitchen for the next day's meals, chatting and snuggling in the lodge living room, camping in the night woods, or engaged in private activities. |
I've attended this interesting, powerful, ten-day event for many years. Network for a New Culture explores building intimate community through practices of curiosity, transparency, self-exploration, and self-responsibility. The days are structured around ZEGG Forum, various self-improvement and human-potential presenters visiting to offer their stuff, and sharing life, work, and play in the West Virginia mountain woods.
“While not exclusively a poly event,” says co-founder Michael Rios, “Summer Camp East is about 70% polyfolk, and 100% poly-friendly.” Here are my impressions from my first year. Here's a bit more from my fourth (last two paragraphs).
From the description: "A 10-day experimental community for emotional intimacy, radical love, and global change. Experience what we’ve learned in our 25 years of exploration – the compassion, communication, and intimate connection that make a new world possible. Connect in the ways you’ve always wanted, learn skills to transform your daily life, and dive into the challenges of creating a world that works for all beings."
About 60 or 70 people usually attend. Vegetarian and vegan group meals; cabins and campsites in the woods (no vehicle hookups); bathhouse with sinks and hot showers. Conditions are mostly rustic, but some indoor accommodations are available onsite (priority goes to those with special needs), and a camp-owned motel is 3 miles away. Inquire whether there's a kids' program this year. A beautiful, and accurate, promo video (I'm in it!). Another camper speaks.
Covid protocols are serious, with emphasis on repeated testing. In 2022 and 2023 these included proof of Covid vaccination or recent infection (recovered), six daily rapid antigen tests before and during camp, and other measures. I was there both years; not one positive Covid test showed up in some 520 total rapid tests conducted and checked onsite, nor was anyone symptomatic, nor was there any reported case post-camp. And IMO, both were among the best Summer Camps I've been to.
● Minnesota PolyCon
Summer 2024, dates TBDShoreview, MN, next to Minneapolis
In 2018 this new one-day event drew 86 people, and 2019 "was a big success with an attendance of 171," wrote MNPoly organizer Randy Frehse. For 2020 he wrote "We are hoping for 200 - 250," but then it was cancelled by the pandemic. Ditto 2021. But the con was back in 2022 and 2023, recovering with financial aid from The Polyamory Foundation.
In 2018 this new one-day event drew 86 people, and 2019 "was a big success with an attendance of 171," wrote MNPoly organizer Randy Frehse. For 2020 he wrote "We are hoping for 200 - 250," but then it was cancelled by the pandemic. Ditto 2021. But the con was back in 2022 and 2023, recovering with financial aid from The Polyamory Foundation.
Sessions have included sex positivity & consent, anatomy of arousal, solo poly, polyamory & mental health, poly & parenting, poly & religion, deconstructing jealousy, being out & poly, and fundamentals of good communication in your polycule. Organized and run by the 1500-member MNPoly Meetup group.
Saturday, July 15, 2023?
US and worldwide
OPEN, the Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Non-monogamy, is a new and impressively capable nonprofit umbrella group "dedicated to fostering the polyamory and non-monogamy movement by advancing cultural acceptance, building political power, and supporting non-monogamous communities and leaders." It launched the first annual Day of Visibility on July 15, 2023, with an impressive 40 supporting organizations from poly to RA to swinging, with a serious media campaign and at least 19 local events scheduled by member groups. The project offered a panoply of graphics, text, and other resources to help users spread the word. The plan more for 2024. See my article on the project and its background.
● Colorado Poly Weekend Retreat – Summer
August 2024, dates TBD
Breckenridge, CO
This gathering is now being held twice a year, in January and August. "Relaxing vacation time with poly friends. The Colorado Polyamory Weekend is a long weekend retreat hosted in a beautiful mountain lodge with all meals provided. The retreat is for polyamorous people and people in poly-relationships to hang out together in a poly-normative, accepting environment. The weekend goes from Thursday afternoon to Monday morning and is held in the beautiful Rocky Mountains in Colorado. Come relax, make new friends, and enjoy the beauty of the Rockies!"
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| On the dock at Polycamp Northeast |
August 2024; dates TBD
East-central New Hampshire
This 3½-day event began with a smashing success in August 2016 (I was there) and has been running since, skipping 2020 during the pandemic. I attended three of the first four, and what a collection of loving hearts this has been each time. Attendance in 2021, 2022, and 2023 sold out at 100 people (full vaccination required) after reaching about 65 in previous years. People self-organize a variety of talks and activities: these have included nonviolent communication techniques, general poly discussion, genderqueer topics, yoga, nightly campfire, board games, crafts, a kayak race, cuddle party, dance. The venue is a well-equipped old New England summer camp (the group cabins each have a full bath) in the New Hampshire lakes region north of Boston. Waterfront with paddleboards, kayaks, canoes, water trampoline. Three meals a day included.
"At PolyCamp Northeast, we support each other in the full spectrum of relationship structures, sexual orientations, and gender identities. This is a space of love, inclusion and acceptance. It is a culture of respect, safety, communication and healthy boundaries. We bring our best selves together to form a community where we can all thrive. Thank you for co-creating this community with us!"
Summer 2024
Ottawa, Ontario
"A kid-friendly poly camping weekend. Join us at Polywood this year to laugh, learn, and community build under the stars. Meet fellow like-minded poly people around the large communal bonfire; take part in various relationship building and strengthening discussions; share your poly knowledge and experiences over wine and cheese. We have limited scholarship funds available; email us at polywood.camping@gmail.com for more information."
August 2024, dates to be decided
Carbondale (near Aspen), Colorado?
(Not to be confused with the Colorado Polyamory Weekend Retreat, which is in a building with services.)
Robyn Trask and Jesus Garcia of Loving More have held this informal family-friendly campout nearly every year for 19 years. Lately about 30 people usually attend. "Come spend a weekend in the amazing White River National Forest near Carbondale, CO. This area boasts abundant wildlife, breathtaking scenery, and a rich history. Join us for hiking, exploring ghost towns, fishing, campfire cooking, conversations, and hanging out with other polyamorous families from the Rocky Mountain Region and beyond."
Robyn writes, "I started hosting this event in 2003 at the earnest request of my children who loved going to the group camp each year and meeting other kids who had weird polyamorous parents. This event was the place my kids could have fun and gave them lifelong friends.
"Now twenty years later my daughter is bringing her own child and it fills me with happiness!"
Robyn writes, "I started hosting this event in 2003 at the earnest request of my children who loved going to the group camp each year and meeting other kids who had weird polyamorous parents. This event was the place my kids could have fun and gave them lifelong friends.
"My kids are grown and I still love hosting this event each year and the opportunity to share my passion for the beauty of the Rocky Mountains with my extended family, the polyamory community.
Aug. 25 – Sept. 2, 2024
Nevada desert
Nevada desert
Village of PolyParadise has been running at Burning Man since 1999. This is a large theme-camp cluster, typically 350 x 440 feet, usually with 250 - 300 campers. Generally about half are repeats from previous years, half are new. Workshops and events in 2022 included Poly High Tea, the famous Human Carcass Wash, Poly Friendly Social/Mixer, Ethical Slut Meet & Greet, Fire Flow Yoga, Therapeutic Photography Session, the Twisted Swan Celtic Pub, and the non-alcoholic Temple of Bacchus. Writes Benevolent Dictator Scotto, "The Village of PolyParadise was absolutely incredible and our best effort yet at creating this amazing On-Playa home. Each year there are many challenges and together we find a way to make things right, together we build an amazing space within the gates of BRC, a place to really call home in the desert." History.
September 2024? Dates to be decided
Ávila, Spain
Ávila, Spain
City to be decided?
Fall 2023?
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| Solo poly symbol |
Past description: "Are you new to polyamory and exploring the many possible configurations, or been practicing honest non-monogamy for decades? Regardless of where you are on the experience spectrum, you’ll appreciate the support, community, camaraderie, hospitality, and awesome keynote speakers we’re assembling for your enjoyment, learning, and growth." In past years SoPoCo sold out in advance.
Fall 2024; dates to de decided.
Miami, FL
"RelateFest is for people who love exploring relationships, questioning relationship norms, learning new skills, and connecting with others. RelateFest brings the principles of curiosity and conscious relating to a safe space for learning, connection, and play. The event will feature relationship experts holding interactive workshops, small group discussions, and immersive experiences. Produced by Esther Perel Discussion Group, Leveled Up Love, and WeDeepen" (a for-profit company).
Last I knew registration itself was $497+ per person. Hotel options ranged from pricy (onsite) to basic (offsite). This is one of many wellness/ growth/ relationship/ spiritual events put on by the Deepen company, "the most raved about Social & Transformational Experiences."
September 2024
Gut Frohberg, Germany?
The German organization PolyAmores Netzwerk (PAN) e.V., at Polyamory.de, runs transregional "Poly Meetings" for German-speaking polyfolks in Germany, Switzerland and Austria. The organizers say the gatherings are (translated) "a platform for networking and for the exchange of experiences and practical knowhow. Also theoretical discussions and the planning of cultural and political activities. The programme is self organized by the participants." Minimum age 18. The working language is German. In past years the meetings have sold out within days of being announced. (Also see Poly-Kalender of local and regional German-speaking events.)
The German organization PolyAmores Netzwerk (PAN) e.V., at Polyamory.de, runs transregional "Poly Meetings" for German-speaking polyfolks in Germany, Switzerland and Austria. The organizers say the gatherings are (translated) "a platform for networking and for the exchange of experiences and practical knowhow. Also theoretical discussions and the planning of cultural and political activities. The programme is self organized by the participants." Minimum age 18. The working language is German. In past years the meetings have sold out within days of being announced. (Also see Poly-Kalender of local and regional German-speaking events.)
October 2024, dates to be decided
Abrams Creek Retreat Center, Mt. Storm, WV
This is a smaller, more intimate version of New Culture Summer Camp held in July at the Abrams Creek Retreat Center in the mountains of West Virginia (see July here for description). These events draw about 70% polyfolks; the focus is on building practices of transparency, self-understanding, communication skills, and intimacy to create radically better relationships of any type. The aim to build, over several days, an enduring network of like-minded people who don't necessarily fall out of touch as happens after most events. "The point is building tribe," says co-organizer Michael Rios.
I've gone to the larger New Culture Summer Camp for many years and can't recommend Center for a New Culture events highly enough. From the website: “Here is where you can meet people at a deeper level, learn the skills needed to handle your relationships, and become a part of a supportive network of people who share your relationship values.... Spend up to 5 days in a rustic woods-and-water setting, hang out around a bonfire, enjoy a song circle, cuddle up at a snuggle party, learn to take your relationships to the next level, and build connections with others that last all year long!”
Explains Michael, "We are exploring the questions: What does it mean to be there for each other? What would it take to be solidly present in each others’ lives, responding flexibly and with love to the needs that emerge? What might we do right now to be there for each other? What role does commitment play? The deep truth is that each person is fundamentally alone. Yet at the same time, there is beauty and skillfulness in interdependence.... And beyond merely meeting needs, we can find delight in co-creation, and in the many ways we can support each other in greater joy. At this community journey, we will open these explorations in a field of love, curiosity, and compassion." Video. Also, a camper's video.
Pre-Covid, Polyday was drawing a total of 200-plus people. The 2018 Polyday got a nice writeup in Vice UK. From the website: "Polyday is an annual day for ethically non-monogamous people and our allies to get together and share our knowledge and experiences -- the questions we've encountered, the lessons we've learned, and the joys and sorrows we've experienced. It is a day for responsible non-monogamous people to experience a comfortable, non-judgmental environment with their fellow poly people and their families. Children of all ages are welcome. Polyday provides an educational and community support network for people who are involved in ethically non-monogamous loving relationships, or who would like to be allies. We promote mutual, collaborative encouragement, solace, and exploration." Facebook page. In past years Polyday has sold out in advance.
Update: Polyday 2022 was brutally cancelled by an ideological failed competitor that had tried to use its name. Polyday's future is unclear. I have heard nothing about 2023 or 2024.
November 23 every year
Polyamory Day began in Canada in 2017 and has spread worldwide. Articles with publicity materials you can use. Google "Polyamory Day" for current doings.
November 23 every year
Polyamory Day began in Canada in 2017 and has spread worldwide. Articles with publicity materials you can use. Google "Polyamory Day" for current doings.
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To add an event (of wide geographic interest, please) email it to me at alan7388 {at} gmail.com.
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| Kimchi Cuddles is based the cartoonist's real life. See her followup strip. And yes, she, "Rajeev" and "Terra" all made it to the Beyond the Love polycon in Ohio that year. |
How to find your LOCAL POLY COMMUNITIES and their get-togethers!
For socials, potlucks, discussions, support, etc. near you, find and join your local poly group(s). You can:
● Try googling polyamory with
your state and/or city.
● Check Meetup.com with keyword polyamory and enter your zip code or city.
● Search Facebook Groups for polyamory with the name of your state and/or city, and for poly with your state and/or city. Ditto Instagram, Twitter.
● In Canada see Canadian Polyamory Groups, a list maintained by the Canadian Polyamory Advocacy Association ("last updated Aug. 2022").
So don't be too quick to assume, as you walk in the door, that you've
finally found your long-sought tribe. Watch out if a group seems to center
on one strong personality and her or his acolytes. Watch out for anyone who
tries to draw you into a faction; they're often guiltier of nasty crap than
the opposing faction. Bad actors often try to turn you against their
legitimate critics before you know any better.
If in doubt, ask around the larger community. It's a good sign if the group
has been running a long time and its people are known and liked. An
excellent sign to watch for is distributed leadership. That
means you see various different people in charge of stuff and an easy and
equal style of discussion and decision-reaching.
And when dating, of course, follow sensible safe-dating practices as always.
(For instance.
More.)
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Can't find a good local poly group? Maybe that's the universe saying you should start it! That's what Meetup.com is for.
Good people will and should be just a bit wary of you as described
above, so make sure to spell out right on Meetup your idea of
good poly, who the group is for, and at least a simple code of
conduct. A standard rule in poly discussion-and-support groups,
learned by experience, is no pickup attempts; the group is for
friendship, support, and community. If friendships evolve to dating,
that happens offline. "Socials" or "parties" may have relaxed rules;
ask.
– Here is organizer Kitty Chambliss's Polyamory Guide to Community Building. "So perhaps you’d like to start a community from scratch in your local area. I’m going to give you a roadmap for success to do just that!"
– Here are Joreth's many thoughts on the kinds of poly community events that might work in your area. She's been an organizer for many years and has pretty much done it all.
– Simple, exact details of how to plan and run a good poly gathering: How I run poly picnic discussions, by Andrea Green.
– Prefer audio? From the Polyamory Weekly podcast: Episode #365, Building Your Poly Community with Meetups, and Episode #464, Building Your Poly Community as it grows.
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All the events are great.... your calendar is full of magic... :)
ReplyDeleteInteresting concept. I have a non geek friend who refers to my triad as "what happens when you marginalize people and leave them alone to long."
ReplyDeleteI just laugh.
Can you publish this as a Google Calendar? It's so much easier to add the calendar and view the events in the context of the rest of my life's schedule. We have a very full Google Calendar feed in the Bay Area that hundreds subscribe to.
ReplyDeleteTo find local poly communities and their get-togethers, you can start by searching online for polyamory groups or events in your area. Websites like Meetup, Facebook, and Eventbrite often have listings for local polyamory groups or events. You can also check out local LGBTQ+ centers or organizations, as they often have resources and events related to polyamory.
ReplyDeleteIf you're comfortable with it, you can also ask friends who are involved in the polyamory community if they know of any local groups or events. When attending events or joining groups, be sure to communicate openly and honestly about your interests and boundaries, and respect the boundaries and privacy of others in the community.